say whaaaaaaaat wednesday???

Happy first Wednesday of 2011

ya hoooooo!!!!

today’s question is something 
i have been struggling with, 
(for what seems),

all of my life.

SHOULD WE...OR SHOULD WE NOT 
HAVE EXPECTATIONS?

i have learned the hard way to NOT 
have expectations due to a sure bet

of being disappointed.  


however, i DO feel in life, 
certain areas warrant expectations.

  ie...relationships, customer service...
how our children behave 


(HA! HA! HA!...did the last one
make you laugh!!)

i feel there should be certain expectations 
we carry within relationships we have in our lives.

 Whether it is our marriage, friendships, 
family relationships, work relationships, etc...

however, how do we figure 
exactly what those expectations are....


since relationships involve someone other than yourself.   
(my expectations may be completely different 
from the others...)
and is it fair to put “my” expectations 
onto someone else??

anyone want to chime in??

i would love to hear your thoughts.

ox

kolleen