Autism: "Autism is a complex developmental disability that typically appears
during the first three years of life and is the result of
neurological disorder that affects the normal functionings
of the brain, impacting development in the areas of social interaction
and communication skills.
Both children and adults with autism show difficulties in
verbal and non-verbal communication,
social interactions, and leisure or play activities.
This is the definition given by the Autism Society of America.
I can relate to much of that definition...
however, I have been the witness to a child
who has not let his diagnosis hold him back.
And who has learned to rise above
some of these "disabilities."
(and...I am FOREVER grateful to the teachers
and aides who have helped along the way)
(and...I am FOREVER grateful to the teachers
and aides who have helped along the way)
On Friday, June 3, 2011 by sweet son Chandler
graduated 8th grade in a class of well over 300 students.
Watching him happily accept his diploma...
smiling, interacting with fellow classmates
smiling, interacting with fellow classmates
was beyond amazing for me.
The fact that he made honor roll...
was beyond amazing to me.
The fact that he made honor roll...
was beyond amazing to me.
He was amongst many children who have gone to school
with him since he was 5 years old.
This chapter closed for him that night as he
will be going on to a high school where many of
these students won't be attending.
He was able to express his sadness and gratitude...
He was able to express his sadness and gratitude...
which made my heart swell that he could
so accurately depict these emotions he was experiencing.
(THAT is a big deal for someone who is
diagnosed with autism)
I am not certain what part of that evening was
my favorite....
from putting his very first tie on him,
from putting his very first tie on him,
to watching him receive his diploma,
to seeing his great grandma
to seeing his great grandma
snuggle up on him full of love and pride.
I have never been one to like labels or putting
a box around things...
i think we all are simply who we are...
individuals...
unique, beautiful,
wondrous souls...
each having our very own quirks,
our very own strengths,
our very own weaknesses...
each of us defying odds, changing definitions...
setting examples.
my heart is full up with my beautiful boy's
accomplishments...i look forward to the next
chapter in his life...
the new challenges, the new victories...
the story continues.
thank you for listening.
ox
kolleen
